4 things you should know about pedophilia

"child sexual abuse (csa) is possibly one of the only offenses where people collectively 'feel the response before they deliberately consider the issue'. this reaction will often extend

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thresholds of choice, contagions of care: dating across divides

in pondering the topic of sex, dating, and the pandemic, i questioned whether this article had to be about covid and the vaccine passports, imagining the many ways

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naked men

i love naked men. i do. i love the humility of the naked body, i love the humanity of the naked body. i love the humour of the

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beyond talk therapy: alternative therapies for teens

Working with teens in the counselling space can be incredibly rich and rewarding - and it also holds its own considerations. Beyond basics like whether they've come to

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the art of play in therapy

The Art Of Play In TherapySome time ago I was speaking with one of my academic mentors about therapeutic approaches and he said, “You should be experimenting in

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3 mental health websites with a social justice lens

Down by the Riverside motelIt’s ten below and fallingBy a ninety-nine cent storeShe closed her eyes and started swayingBut it’s so hard to dance that wayWhen it’s cold

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the art of truth-telling

For most of us honesty is a quality that we value, though when it comes right down to it, telling the truth isn’t always easy. If it were,

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a letter to my daughter in birmingham, alabama

Dearest daughter,Guard your uterus in these darkening days. Gather your wits as you go into the belly of the beast. Your lifelong dream of travelling to the South

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anorexia, bulimia, and the starving of saints

There is an idiom about the canary in the coal mine, dating back to when miners brought caged canaries underground with them. If the canary died, signalling toxic

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what’s the difference between borderline and bipolar?

That’s the question that begat this article, but it mushroomed into more than that. You see, to talk about how borderline and bipolar are different, we also need

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