What It’s Like

In a typical counselling session, you will share what’s going on for you, and I will ask questions to generate thought and insight. Sometimes I give homework, but don’t let that scare you! It’s only meant to deepen your self-inquiry. After we have met for a counselling appointment, I will write you a letter to highlight meaningful parts of the conversation. I may ask questions for you to ponder until we meet again.

Number Of Sessions

Most people will come to counselling for anywhere up to 12 sessions, and some will come for longer – it depends on your needs and desires. How often you come similarly depends on many factors. Sometimes an issue is more acute (like fresh grief or suicidal thoughts), and I will ask people to come more often. As the problem begins to resolve itself, we can stretch out our visits to once every few weeks, or once a month. Some people just want to come in for a tune up once every few months, and that’s great too.

Therapeutic Approach

the main therapeutic approach that i bring to my work is somatic therapy. as a therapist whose areas of specialization include sexuality and eating disorders ~ both of which happen on and to the body ~ it feels especially important to have a way of approaching these experiences with clients. i appreciate this modality, too, because it can be used individually with clients, and also collectively as an approach to embodied activism. an influential organization in this respect is generative somatics. i'm also drawn to the work of adrienne maree brown and resmaa menakem, who engage with somatic practices as a way to transform social justice issues. 

As a writer, a feminist, and a person who comes from a lineage of storytellers, however, I am also drawn to narrative therapy – in which we take our problematic stories and develop more empowering, hopeful narratives. This approach separates the problem from the individual, and considers it in the context of the culture in which the problem arises. Dominant cultural narratives (of race, class, gender, mental health, ability, and so forth) play significant roles in how we navigate our lives. Put simply, problems are relational and contextual rather than isolated and individual.

all of this said, there is evidence to support that the therapeutic approach is less important than therapeutic rapport. in other words, if you have a good connection with your counsellor and you trust them, you are likely to get the most out of your counselling with them. For a deeper dive into how to find a counsellor who is right for you, read the blog I wrote about it.

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